3 Sex Alternatives for Couples in Long Distance Relationships

3 Sex Alternatives for Couples in Long Distance Relationships

We have heard it all before… sex is a biological need. It is an inevitable aspect of human nature. “Hell, yeah!” I could already hear the men exclaiming. Meanwhile, the women would probably be discreetly nodding in agreement or thinking to themselves, “of course, I love him and therefore, I like having sex with him.”

But whether you agree to it or not, the fact is, sex is a vital element in a relationship. And although there are a few known cases of couples that have managed to live without sexual intercourse, it is the exception rather than the rule.

As I have unfortunately learned throughout the years, being apart can lead to lies, deception, and infidelity. I have personally seen a number of long distance couples inevitable end their once oh-so-sweet relationship on a sour note because more often than not, one of them if not both, have lost that so-called romantic spark. It appears to be the same old spiel: one of lovebirds winds up succumbing to the consoling comfort or electrifying touch of someone of the opposite sex who was in close proximity to them at that moment. I’d know. My first long distance ex-boyfriend of two years did just that.

So, have you ever wondered how you can possibly manage to pull off a way to spice up the romance despite the distance? Do you want to make sure that he still thinks of you as the sexy fox that you are? Do you want to know if you are still the gorgeous stud that you are who turns her on?

It all boils down to passion and creativity. If you are truly committed to making your long distance relationship work, you would give in to your primal instincts and take these unconventional sex pointers to mind:

1.     Webcam-to-Webcam Sex

Thanks to the technology of this age, we are now able to see our loved ones from across great distances in real time. All you need is a working desktop computer or if your budget allows you, the more comfortable laptop which you can take with you anywhere. Afterwards, you need to download a video messenger program like Skype, MSN, Yahoo, among others, that provides free video calls.

Then, you certainly would also need to make sure that both of you have webcams, be it external for your desktop computer or an internal webcam for your laptop, which most models of laptops have these days anyway.

Furthermore, you want to make sure that you have a steady and reliable internet connection. It would be better if you had a wireless router, so, you can connect to it from anywhere and you don’t have to position yourself near the wall while you keep the deed on.

 With those three simple things, you and your long distance boyfriend or girlfriend can enjoy having sexual intercourse in the virtual world. You can go take a bath or shower together—just make sure that you place your laptop somewhere steady so that it doesn’t topple over and situate it somewhere far enough not to get it soaking wet but near enough for you to still get a good view of each other.

You can do it in bed too. The possibilities are infinite. You just have to have a creative and sensual mind.

Trust me, webcam-to-webcam sex can be a lot of fun. My fiancé and I do it on a regular basis. Kinky, don’t you think?

2.     Phone Sex

Of course, who wouldn’t know about the ever-famous maneuver: the phone sex? It is a tried and tested formula for getting your partner turned on with the use of your sultry voice and your dirty, sexually stimulating words.

If you have the finances to splurge on burning the telephone wires with your sweetie, then, by all means, do so. You can even play guessing game or what not. Phone sex is stimulating for the reason that it gives you that added advantage in the fact that you cannot see your partner and have more freedom to visually experiment using the power of your carnal mind.

3.     SMS Sex

Have you ever been too stressed in the workplace? Do you want to be able to somewhat release all that that pent up energy? Text messaging is like the version of a quickie in a long distance relationship. Moreover, it is the most discreet of all of the three because you don’t run the risk of nudity exposure should anyone walk on you while you are doing the deed virtually and you do not run the risk of having all your kinky fantasies from being overheard by anyone with bionic ears.

Quite frankly, sex via the exchange of text messages, otherwise known as sex-ting, leaves you with a lot of liberty—you can picture him or her in any way you choose and even fit the way you want him or her to sound like in your mind. It’s a virtual wonder that you can do with your sweetie through the use of simply any SMS-capable mobile phone.

Furthermore, through the continuous advancement of mobile technology, you can even send each other MMS messages, if it gets you on better. You could send each other photos, videos, voice recordings, and what not that would literally have you looking forward to the next time that you get to be with each other again.

Well, these are just three of the sexy and enjoyable activities that you can do with your long distance lover. It is all up to you. Just because you are not physically with each other does not necessarily mean that the fun has to stop, does it? You just have to be more open, creative, and imaginative as you explore each other mentally, emotionally, and psychologically in a very sensual way, virtually—until you can do it in reality, that is.

In a nutshell, these ideas can basically help in filling both your sexual appetites sans the lies, the deception, or the infidelity. Plus, it gives you ways to understand each other and communicate about your sexual needs and wants. So that you can confidently look forward to the next time you are in each other’s arms and you can really get your freak on with each other—literally. Get it on, have fun and let your imagination soar! ;)